There was a side garden at the home I named Spindrift in Timmins, Ontario. It started out as a strip of lawn I hated to mow, running down the east side of the building. When we first moved there, my wife Claudia suggested it might make a pretty garden path. Over the ensuing years I built a fence & a gate to define its borders. I tore up the sod, then added fresh loam and mulch to the topsoil. My sons helped collect some slate-like stepping stones from an old mine-site nearby. Their mother found bleeding heart, forget-me-not, clover and creeping thyme to plant along the pathway. My father found this secret garden enchanting and sketched it before he died while holidaying in Portugal. His sketch was framed and hung in the front room of Spindrift, where palliative care was provided for my ailing wife. My teacher colleagues volunteered to weed & tend this special garden as Claudia’s death neared. I wonder now, having moved so far away, if this sanctuary garden still provides the delights of spring blossoms.
Currently my special mom is receiving eldercare from her only child and me in a small townhouse in Victoria. My wife Susan likes to call this narrow, three story home Treehouse Towers. A large Douglas Fir, at the west side of our house drops needles onto our small north-facing backyard garden. Black-hooded warblers love to peck and toss these needles looking for tiny forage. Inside the sliding doors leading out on this scene my 96 year old mother-in-law may eat lunch while listening to her audio books. John Steinbeck is one of her favourite authors. When she finished East of Eden she concluded that the story alluded to that first biblical garden, “Only now,” she said, “Eden is surrounded by dark clouds from an easterly wind.”
I believe life is a garden of earthly delights even though I have never been much of a gardener, of things floral or vegetable. As a former teacher I like to think I helped nourish children in the manner of the original idea behind the Kinder-Garten. My birth mother told stories of how she and her teen girlfriends would create Victory Gardens, which were being promoted as a way of providing much needed food during WWII in England. Amidst the bombing raids she said that working on the land with shovel and hoe provided a sense of hope. Not having a green thumb doesn’t stop me from planting seeds of other sorts to keep my feelings optimistic.
The original story, The Secret Garden by Frances Hodgson Burnett has been visioned in many art forms. In all versions, The Garden is depicted as a transformative place where fears can be overcome and confidence restored. The needs of the plants become metaphor for human basic needs: warmth, sustenance, order, health, and community. There is loss along with new growth found in any garden. Life is discovered here, even amongst tangled weeds. A garden may have a wall, or fence, yet a gate can be found through which joyous secrets can be explored.
Catch My Drift? 